The words and art for this ceremony are free gifts to you in order to put
tools that will help meet the needs of everyone involved in adoption—to
celebrate its wonder and also to add structure and sacredness to the
bittersweet day when the miracle of adoption occurs.
For those who created this tool, it’s not about selling books. It’s about
meeting the deep heart need of every adopted/foster/orphaned child to have a
physical connection with the birth family. This need has been likened by
adoption professionals to a starving man looking for food. We believe birth
mothers also have this need.
Because this connection is often impossible, the story of
Forever Fingerprints contained in the book and the accompanying
fingerprinting activity and ceremony accomplish this end, for our
fingerprints are genetic ties to the birth family.
People and Organizations Who Might Find the
Ceremony Beneficial:
- Adoption agencies: to help the birth mother pre-plan for the handing
over of the child to the new parents
- Social workers: who may be removing a child from a bad home situation,
wanting to honor the child’s need for connection
- Social workers: finalization ceremonies
- Adoption lawyers: finalization ceremonies; adoption events where you just
want to celebrate adoption with the kids and parents
- Nurses: aiding in infant adoptions in the hospital
- Hospitals: incorporating the ceremony and book as part of a “gift package”
to the birth mother
How to Use:
We suggest that two copies of the ceremony be made, one for the birth mother
and her family, another for the new parents. If the birth mother would like
to prepare in this way, the adoption professional, lawyer, or dedicated
hospital employee can proceed in the way that is most appropriate for the
situation.
Materials Needed:
The Adoption Celebration Ceremony (2-3 copies)
Download
(two pages - print double sided and fold)
Fingerprinting Sheets:
- For the birth mother, with a meaningful verse and place to date the event;
created suitable for framing.
Download
- For the child, also with a meaningful verse and place to date the event;
created suitable for framing or life book use.
Download
- For children and parents, for adoption celebration parties, with fun kid
stuff around the borders; suitable for yearly life book activities.
Download
Book: Forever Fingerprints…An Amazing Discovery for Adopted Children (EMK
Press), by Sherrie Eldridge and illustrated by Rob Williams
(May be purchased from
EMK
Press or
Amazon):
- One as a gift for the child
- One for the birth mother, if she would like it
Fingerprint Pads:
- Good selection at scrap booking stores
- Fine tipped, colored markers, for drawing and leaving messages on the
fingerprint sheets
The money involved in creating this project is being donated to the
Rafiki
Foundation, founded by former Bible Study Fellowship Director, Rosemary
Jensen. This organization turns helpless orphans into godly contributors in
their own country of Africa.